Slang dossier
Slay
Pronounced slay
Did something impressively, looked great or performed well. In this slang use it is a compliment, not a reference to killing. Its use has long roots in queer and Black cultural expression.
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In a sentence
How it sounds
Illustrative examples
- “You slayed that presentation.”
- “That outfit is a slay.”
Where teens use it
The habitat
Fashion comments, performance reactions, supportive messages and everyday encouragement.
Parent briefing
What parents should know
Usually enthusiastic praise. Context can distinguish a compliment from sarcasm. Do not confuse the slang with a threat, and do not assume a teen’s identity from the words they use.
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